Divorce seems to be coming soon !!

I’m going to try to say this as kindly and respectfully as possible. I am completely confused by your entire relationship. You have been complaining about your husband for the past seven months. You have said that he is emotionally abusive and a bad influence for your daughter, yet you married him anyway (despite having tons of red flags waving in the wind and lots of reservations prior to the wedding). There are a ton of inconsistencies in your stories. At one point you say he is 10 years older than you, another time you say he’s 13 years older than you, another post you say he is 15 years older than you; so I am really confused about the inconsistencies in his age and whether all of this is even true. But, if what you are saying IS true, A. you never should have married this person. B. This is not a person that any mother should want around their child, and C. You either need to get some professional help in your relationship (ie, a marriage counseling) ASAP… or you need to get yourself and your daughter out of this toxic situation. You have seen and identified all the red flags and you know this is not a healthy relationship. So at this point you are knowingly staying in an emotionally abusive relationship and subjecting your daughter to it.

I assume your spouse waited the minimum amount of months required in your state to pick a fight for separation. Go with it. Also, boundaries. Your body is yours.

View Quoted Comment I said 10+ meaning more than 10 years.

View Quoted Comment Actually, I was referring to your previous posts. One you said 13 years, and another you said 15 years.

I mean 6 months ago you said in a post that your marriage was a nightmare and that all the problems you had were growing exponentially. Had you resolved those issues in marriage counseling? If you did and this is a new problem, maybe return to counseling. If not, I imagine this is just one more thing to add to list of reasons you shouldn't have married this man and should really accept that this relationship isn't healthy for either of you or your child.