Delayed honeymoon?

That's what we'll be doing as well so I'm very interested what others have to say here! The only thing I can think of is to be sure to book a few things that you might not normally do for any other vacation. That, or consider doing it for your anniversary rather than 6-8 months. I dont really want to do the year one because its so long but we'll see if I can convince the fiancé of that hahaha

Not speaking from experience, but to me there's two areas you can really touch on to make it feel different: the time leading up, and the experience itself.

In the day or so before, you and your husband could put your wedding attire back on and go out someplace nice, re-watch your wedding video, go through wedding pictures, reminisce on your day, and anything else to sort of put you back in the "wedding" headspace. You could also get yourselves something new to wear to the airport that has Mr./Mrs., your new last name, something about being newlyweds, etc. on it.

As for the trip itself, what are some things that you'd do on a honeymoon vs a romantic vacation? Upgraded room? Flower petals on the bed? Go out to a nicer place for dinner? Buy special outfits? Do whatever would make it stand out as a "honeymoon" in your mind!

There may not be much you can do about how much you settle into newlywed life in 6-8 months, but you can still try to make it special

We had to postpone our honeymoon due to Covid about 11 months after our wedding. At first, we too were disappointed, however, there are lots of pros! No worrying about getting your thank you cards out, time to pack and not rush getting ready to go, and more to look forward to minimizing the “after wedding blues”. Plus you will have your photos back by then and reminisce on what a joyous day it was ❤️ We went on excursions and got newlywed clothes and such. Our nerves were so shot having to not rush out of town was a blessing! Hope this helps ❤️

Many couples don't depart immediately due to work, other obligations, etc. We waited 6 months for our honeymoon, not for costs but wedding planning in 5 months was exhausting. Honeymoon is really a mindset. Focus on your partner and make it romantic. It's not about seeing everything or getting free perks, but enjoying each other in that spousal glow. My husband & I are well- traveled separately but for the honeymoon, i pre- planned to just relax on the beach with my man + 1 day of group excursions. Luxury accomodations with good security and amenities will give you peace of mind to lay in bed all day and still eat late. My partner & I know we have other adventures in our future, but 1 honeymoon.

Also, maybe a hot destination getaway during your cold months can be something to look forward to! Plus, it's pretty sexy uncovering yourselves in the midst of sweater season. Best wishes!

I would definitely splurge on romantic extras, like a couples massage, room upgrade, etc. And I would be obnoxious and let everyone know lol! It’s your one chance to do so! So when you’re booking your room, making dining reservations, etc, make sure you put in the notes if possible that you’re on your honeymoon, and get those matching t-shirts! Getting those congrats and surprise freebies from others will put you back in the celebratory mood. And, as someone else pointed out, you’ll have something big to look forward to after the wedding so it’s not such a hard shift back to normal life.

We didn’t go on our honeymoon til 8 months later! We had an amazing time even tho it wasn’t immediately after the wedding but it was also nice knowing we didn’t have to stress about the wedding and honeymoon at the same time

Our wedding is in March and our honeymoon isnt until October to make sure we're not traveling to our destination during their rainy season. I think this is super common now.

Postponing a honeymoon is not uncommon, and many couples have successfully planned delayed honeymoons due to various reasons, including financial constraints and work schedules. Here are some tips to make your delayed honeymoon feel special and more like a honeymoon:

1. Plan something unique: Consider choosing a destination or experience that you both have been dreaming of and that feels special to you as a couple. This could be a romantic beach getaway, a cultural exploration, or an adventure-filled trip. By selecting a destination or activity that you both have been looking forward to, it will create a sense of excitement and make it feel more like a honeymoon.

2. Add romantic elements: Incorporate romantic gestures and surprises throughout your trip to make it feel more special. You can arrange for surprise candlelit dinners, couples' spa treatments, or private excursions. Consider booking accommodations with romantic features like Jacuzzis, balconies with stunning views, or beachfront villas.

3. Plan intentional couple time: Make sure to set aside quality time for just the two of you during your trip. This could include activities such as sunset walks on the beach, couples' massages, or intimate picnics. Take the opportunity to reconnect and celebrate your newlywed status.

4. Capture the memories: Hire a professional photographer or book a romantic photoshoot at your destination. This will not only provide you with beautiful memories but also add a special touch to your honeymoon experience.

5. Personalize the experience: Incorporate elements that reflect your relationship and make it unique to you as a couple. This could include special surprises, gifts, or activities that hold sentimental value. It will help create a more personalized and intimate honeymoon experience.

6. Limit distractions: Consider setting boundaries with work and other responsibilities during your delayed honeymoon. Make an effort to disconnect from work-related emails and obligations, allowing yourselves to fully focus on each other and enjoy the honeymoon experience.

Remember, a honeymoon is ultimately about celebrating your love and starting your married life together. Regardless of the timing, cherish the opportunity to spend quality time with your partner and create lasting memories. With a little planning and intentionality, your delayed honeymoon can still be a magical and romantic experience.

My wedding is in Paris on 6th June 2024, but still doesn't select our honeymoon destination.

We will also be doing this. Our wedding is in April 2024 and we will probably have the honeymoon around October 2024. For us it's because of the fact that my fiance works in landscaping and the spring and summer months are his busy season and his money making season. We also don't want the stress of having to save for a honeymoon and the wedding at the same time. We are going to focus on the wedding and then afterwards focus on the honeymoon planning and funding.