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Bridesmaid Situation

Amanda, on March 10, 2021 at 5:48 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 7

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Around January one of my bridesmaids posted a picture of her save the dates she was sending (she had gotten engaged after I had postponed my wedding the first time). She said she was keeping it small but told one of my other bridesmaids and I that we’d still be invited.

I’m not really sure how to address the situation but why would it make sense for her to be such a big part of my wedding if I wasn’t even invited to hers?

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Latest activity by Julie, on March 10, 2021 at 8:44 PM

VIP February 2020
Julie · on March 10, 2021 at 6:12 PM
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But I don't understand. Didn't she tell you in person that you were invited?
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Amanda · on March 10, 2021 at 6:14 PM
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She told us that right when she got engaged and we haven’t talked since. She also sent out the save the dates a while ago I just thought about asking the other bridesmaid recently because I hadn’t heard anything.
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Michelle · on March 10, 2021 at 6:18 PM
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Maybe she considers the verbal conversation as sending a STD. Has she sent out the invitations?
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Amanda · on March 10, 2021 at 6:20 PM
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I mean she had the conversation with the two of us at the same time and only sent one of us the save the date. I’m not sure about the invites, but the wedding is in may so I’m assuming they’ll be sent soon. I guess I’ll just wait to see if I get an invite.
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Heather · on March 10, 2021 at 6:59 PM
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Amanda,
Wait it out and see if you end up getting in the mail. Don't make any conclusions just yet!
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Michelle · on March 10, 2021 at 7:22 PM
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Wait for the invite before you jump to conclusions
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Julie · on March 10, 2021 at 8:44 PM
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Yeah but that's just a save the date for people who aren't as intimately involved. If wait for invites. Why spend money on extra save the dates when you already know when it is? That's how I see it, at any rate
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