One of my closest friends from high school has always been a bit of a hot mess… she’s always been an incredibly nice person and good friend, but tends to make bad decisions and that has just gotten worse the older she gets. This weekend on the bachelorette she mentioned that she hasn’t tried on the bridesmaid dress yet. (Bad decision) Everyone else has had to get it at least hemmed. I told them to get the dress in January. My wedding is 25 days away. Another dress wouldn’t even come in time. If it doesn’t fit, i don’t know what she’s going to do.
So I’m debating telling her if she doesn’t have a dress that she can’t be a bridesmaid. (Obviously still plan to include her in hanging out before and everything, just not as a bridesmaid) but I’m afraid it’s going to really devastate her.
…AND.. To make matters worse… my maid of honor is pregnant, found out after ordering her first dress in January. Ordered another one and just ate the cost, it’s still too small but she’s taken it to a seamstress and they’re trying to fix it. And I’ve told her that if they can’t get it to fit, We can get another dress and she can just be a different color so it looks intentional. She’s since ordered three other dresses as options for that day just in case.
Is it terrible to tell the BM she can’t be in it but make allowances for the MOH?
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