Bridal shower game.

I wouldn't. A shower is one of the times it's considered obligatory to bring a gift since that's the entire purpose of the party. Posting a virtual game on Facebook for those who couldn't attend seems a little bit too much like you're trying to include and remind people that there was a shower and therefore to send gifts. I'm sure this isn't your intention but I would save the prizes for those who attend.

I have a lot of people invited to my shower that are out of town and unable to make it for various reasons. Some are just genuinely busy but for those who have travel restrictions but were still "free" for the date and time I am offering a video portion where they can still join in on the activities. Prior to the event I am mailing them out all the games so they can still participate with everyone else. Hope this is helpful.

Hay Katie! I just had my BS on the 15th. I opted not to invite ladies who live out of state, because I I'd have rather had them there to see them then for them to feel obligated to send a gift when unable to attend (And I already knew they could not!) They are very close friends/family and took no offense (would never, either) Nor felt left out from receiving an invite. They know how I roll-are chill girls and knew without me telling them my reasoning, why I wasn't. Anyways,

A couple of women who were invited (got the invite) that were unable to attend sent me beautiful cards with either a check or a gift card and I received these before the Bridal Shower. Again, would have rather just had them there, but life. LOL. What I opted to do, to give you some ideas maybe: For those ladies that were unable to attend and sent card and gift, I sent them the w same Thank you card all ladies in attendance received. I included for them fun photos of the Shower, pictures of the decor and the cake and depending on whom they are closest too, photos of me with "said" person as well. THESE ladies also received the small "Thank You" gift included in the envelope from me as other ladies in attendance. I also included my party favor to them.

All women who attended also received thank you cards with the "Thank you gift" included that was from me, and all ladies also received photos of the event pertaining to either me opening their gift given to me, or me in my snazzy ribbon hat acting like a nutball, etc.

WILL MENTION THIS: (JUST in case it happens to you, or others)

Sadly, there were some ladies whom I found out received a phone call from my future MIL when they never responded "yes or no" to the Bridal Shower Invite. TWO spoke with her directly and were very "Wishy Washy" on their response. They said basically, "I don't know, I'll see if I can make it." She wanted to respond with, "Yes or no please?" I do NOT blame her, but she kindly, refrained. Neither of those ladies attended, neither one ever getting back to her with a clear-cut answer either. Whatever, no biggie. I didn't request a shower to begin with, happy my FMIL was so excited to give me one in the end, so I just roll my eyes at those two's answers to her, although- COME ON, really? I am more annoyed that she was so worried about it than the fact they didn't show. THOSE two ladies I obviously did not send TY cards too.

ONE Girl, and this one is still blowing my mind, didn't respond to RSVP. My FMIL reached out to her. The girl's mom answered the phone and spoke happily with FMIL for a bit then hollered for her daughter. The girl Was RIGHT THERE and wouldn't come to the phone. (???) It was so awkward, my FMIL said the girls' mama didn't know what to say. SO, my FMIL chalked it up to well, maybe the girl was working from home ( .. she wasn't. But oh the excuses we all make, LOL!) Still my FMIL was quite.... ticked about that one, She said she doesn't want to judge, but.. it was rude and very weird. And I do not blame her. She never heard a word from the girl, nor have I. I am perplexed as well over it. The girl has stopped responding to many things to me recently, and it started shortly after she found out I was engaged. I SHRUG. I know those are her issues, but again.... JEEESH. Needless to say, she is not getting any thank you from me. (I also opted not to reach out to her about it. There are high roads and then roads one doesn't have to walk, and I'm choosing not to walk that road by reaching out... and just see wtheck happens when she receives the wedding invitation.... in which if no response, it is MY place to contact, and I will. In the meantime, chalking it up to ... whatever)

NOW- Fourth girl! She was attending and rsvp'd she would be there, but the morning of woke up being ill. She took medicine but was DOWN and out. She immediately reached out to FMIL and apologized explaining the situation. My FMIL was happy she showed the kindness, respect and the sense to do so. SO AM I.

(Her daughter had been sick that week and she ended up getting it, sadly the day of the shower) THIS GIRL, I sent her photos of the shower, a thank you card, also wishing her a fast recovery, sorry she couldn't make it... she also received the favors given out at the shower as well as my thank you favor in the card.

Everyone who has received their cards are reaching out to me so happy about the way I included the personal items (photos) in the cards. AND the elderly ladies are telling everyone about it. LOL. Just an idea for you to do, other than the shower game or GC idea you have. I saved money by providing photos which were meaningful as well as the little ty from me to fit inside the envelope was affordable too. They loved it.

Sorry so long, just want to help. (By including the weird lack of responses that I HOPE DO NOT occur with you, but MAY. JEEEESH, lol and giving you another suggestion/ way to say thanks! But save yourself some cash!!)

Also, to be honest, I am supposed to be putting my wedding invitations together right now and my head starting spinning, needed a break. :-)

Good luck and have fun with whatever you decide on!!!

The game sounds like a fun idea!!

. You're welcome!
The game idea is very unique!!

It's a great idea to include those who couldn't make it to your bridal shower by hosting games on Facebook! It's a fun and interactive way to engage with your friends and family who couldn't attend. Offering a prize, such as a gift card, can make the game even more exciting and encourage more people to participate. Just be sure to communicate the rules clearly and include everyone who wants to participate in the game. I'll give you a perfect game idea to be the games king.

Here's an idea for a game that you can play on Facebook after your bridal shower:

"Guess the Bride's Favorites"

Create a list of questions that ask your friends and family to guess your favorite things, such as your favorite color, favorite food, favorite movie, favorite book, etc. You can also include questions about your relationship, such as where you and your partner met, where you got engaged, etc.

Post the questions on your Facebook page and ask your friends and family to answer them in the comments. After a set amount of time, announce the winner who guessed the most answers correctly. You can award the winner with a gift card or another prize.

This game not only engages your friends and family who couldn't attend your bridal shower, but it also allows them to learn more about you and your preferences. Good luck and have fun!