Bourne Mansion li - Music too loud?

My fiancé and I are in love with Bourne Mansion on Long Island, but we’ve heard that because of the high rounded ceilings in the ballroom, the echo created by the music is unbearably loud. I love this place so much and I’m willing to overlook some loud music, but for my fiancé, this is a deal breaker! Does anyone have any experiences, positive or negative, attending a wedding here? Music related or just in general! Thank you!