Bachelor, Bachelorette, or Coed-party

That's 100% up to you. We decided to have separate get togethers just because everything we do is together. Lol. But certainly nothing "sexual". He and his guys are going fishing which I'm so not into. Me and my girls are going to watch a sappy movie and have a slumber party.

I have told my FH- 1) I ALWAYS find out what has happened. Either he tells me( when he’s had too much to drink) 2) Someone tells me 3) I find out and “confront” him.- therefore WHATEVER he does at his I am doing at mine.... 10-fold! Lol...
I am fine with a coed party.
I also agreed to do a New Orleans bachelorette/bachelor party and we each had 1-3hrs to go to a strip club, NO lap/private dances, and the knowledge the other person could walk into club at any point- with our people.
Mind you he’s 52 and I’m 40, so the wild strip club doesn’t thrill us as much as it would if we were 24! Lol

We we're talking about coed and going on a little trip about 2 hours away but my FH wants all the people there for him and he doesn't think they will travel, so now we are having separate ones. One of my bms and my MOH actually said yesterday they are starting to plan

We were thinking of doing an airbnb for the last few nights where we can use that to host our bachelor/ette party at the same time but in seperate areas of the house. Save money and still do our own thing as we also don't want much, he just wants to drink and play his nerdy games and I just want to hangout and play bridal party games haha

Me personally, me and my fiance were never really party people so to speak so we were planning to do a coed party so that we could let everyone mingle and get to know each other.

However it is up to you guys because it's your big day and like this website says, "no couple is the same"

Whatever you want, I think both are fun! We are doing ours separately, but they aren't "sexual" parties haha. My fiance is flying to San Diego and going deep sea fishing. I'm flying to Palm Springs & doing a spa weekend.

Thanks for all the opinions, looks like we're going to be doing 3 parties. To much if you ask me but we both agreed to do a bridal shower so everyone can meet each other. The night before the wedding we'll have separate parties since the best man really wants to threw a guys night out party. And my girls want to give me a ladies night out.

We have talked about a co-ed party - mostly because I only have a handful of female friends and the rest are dudes lol! I mentioned a houseboat on the lake with all of our closest friends and everyone seemed super into the idea. I mentioned to FH that he could definitely still go out with just the guys for his own bachelor party so he might do that in addition but nothing super extravagant.

We are doing a co-ed Bach Party! Most of our friends are mutual (specifically our bridal party), so it only makes sense. We are renting a big Airbnb and making a fun trip out of it. There will be nothing sexual about the Bach Party though lol. Just a fun vacay to celebrate us getting married!