My Fiancé and I are getting married August 8, 2020, on his parents property in Oregon. My FH and I currently live in Montana so it’s already stressful enough planning from another state. We originally had 180 guests on the list and after talking we were going to try to cut the guest list a little bit. Well, yesterday the Oregon governor came out with the phases and how opening the state would be started. They stated that there would be no large gatherings until probably September, but then used examples such as concerts, the fair, and live sporting events. There were no numbers given at what classifies a “large gathering”, I feel like there’s a big difference between a 180 person guest list and the number of people at a concert. I was able to cut 35 people off my guest list, my FH was able to cut 4 friends, and my FMIL said they had cut their friend guest list way down before giving us the list. I have a small family, I damn near have nobody on my part of the list other than maybe 15 family members and my 6 bridesmaids and their spouses and I think 10 more people total. I don’t know what to do. My FH said we would tell him parents that their list needs cut before ours, but I am so overwhelmed. I slept about an hour and a half last night, and when I did sleep I had dreams about Covid. I don’t know what to do, and I can’t imagine not sleeping the next 3 months. Part of me really wants to be like we’ll invite everyone and whoever shows up, shows up. I just feel so lost.. 😭
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