I don't know where it comes from, but more and more I have the feeling that I've chosen the wrong dress, we should have celebrated bigger and im talking a lot of things bad. But it doesnt make any sense, because i cant change it anymore?
I loved my dress from the back, but when I look at the photos from the front, I remember that the tailor may not have done a perfect job. No one said anything and I know I felt great that day. But when I look at the photos now, I often think to myself that one or two centimetres are missing at the front. It also didn't help that I recently saw the perfect dress in a shop window.
Did anyone have a similar feeling after the wedding? It doesn't make any sense anymore, the dress is bought, the wedding is already behind me and all my thoughts can't be changed?
I say this to myself several times a day and still these thoughts come up. We got married very spontaneously and I bought the dress in the second store. I fell in love straight away but had the feeling after the dress had been fitted that it somehow looked different. I had to buy it off the rack. But the more fabric was removed, the less I liked it. But even if all this is true, don't these thoughts make any sense now?
I know I'm too much of a perfectionist and it was only one day. But now I keep having negative thoughts. And the funny thing is: I haven't thought about all of this a long time. But when I saw this other dress .... it all came back.
It was a wonderful day, but we planned it in just one month. Sometimes I wonder if I wouldn't have liked a bit more time. But I also know that nothing is perfect and that's actually a good thing. And of course the main thing is: I'm happily married. So why im talking so bad about my own wedding? I dont want to talk about this with my husband, friends or family. I also don't want to hurt my husband with it
