Hello all, any advice is greatly appreciated! I am getting married in March of this year & I originally had 2 maids of honor, one being my sister and the other was one of my best friends from college. My friend from college reached out to me saying that she would love to be a part of my bridal party but she does not feel like she can sufficiently fulfill MOH duties. She was the one who brought up the idea of rearranging my bridal party for someone to take her place.
I have developed a really close relationship with my future sister in law who has been nothing but a giant help to me during these wedding planning times & I am so appreciative of how much she continues to do for me. I would love for her to be the other MOH, but I don't want her to feel like she is just a backup.
*Note - when I had first sent out bridal party proposals, we were not as close as we are now, but rather have developed a really close, best friend like relationship.