a wealthy family member

What to do when you have a relative with money and they seem to just keep talking about the money they are putting forward for your wedding? I love my family, but one individual always seems to try to hold their money over other members of the family. In regards to registry they mention how much they have and reasserted the amount. Then mentioned the cost of the flight, the cost of the hotel (they insisted on a 5 star, our state only has one), a birthday gift they gave me this year as well as how much money they gifted me to go towards my wedding dress purchase. Money doesn't mean a lot to me, while I appreciate what it can do for you, other things are more important to me. Any tips on how to handle this graciously?