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Ivy ORP
VIP October 2019

3 1/2 weeks!!!

Ivy ORP, on September 16, 2019 at 10:29 AM Posted in Planning 0 25
We're on track with our to do list (even though we seem to keep adding to it) but I just looked at the calendar and my heart seized when I realized we only have 3 1/2 weeks till the big day!!! I'm just trying to take deep breaths and not spiral out but OMG my nerves just hit the roof!!!!

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Latest activity by Ivy ORP, on September 16, 2019 at 2:39 PM
  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    Yes just take deep breathes and try to relax. Make a list of what needs to be done and delegate what you can. Take time for yourself, drink lots of water and get plenty of rest. Good luck!
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    I have lists of my lists. LOL It will all be ok but it feels daunting when I see how quickly the day is approaching.

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    I understand. Somehow it will all come together and be beautiful.
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    Thank you so much. My fingers are crossed!

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  • Sara
    Super October 2019
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    Haha...I totally get this. We have less than three weeks, and I still have piles of lists. Our coordinator is kind of providing the same reminders, but making a list of all our final communications with vendors made me feel so much better. I had a general idea of what was due when, but reading through all our contracts and combining all the info with due dates so I can check things off as I go has been huge. Otherwise it's just trying to sit back and relax! Good luck to you!

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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    Thank you so much. Good luck and happy planning to you as well.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    So exciting. I remember getting nervous for mine the closer it got too
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    We all go through it, right? Right?!?! LOL I did just get a bit of good news, our cake topper should be arriving Wednesday after more than a month and a half!!!

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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
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    How exciting!! More last minute stuff coming in? Gosh that final month feels like only a day, it goes SO fast! You’ve got this! ❤️
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    Don't you have like a week left??? How are you feeling?

    Yes, we should have everything this week. Then I need to reorganize it all and make my packing lists. It feel like we just got engaged and now we are almost married!

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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
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    Like I’m going to throw up, lol. I’m super excited but planning a wedding in 4 months is the most stressful thing we’ve ever done and it feels like there’s never enough time to finish anything. I know we’ve got this, just doesn’t feel that way!

    Man you don’t even wanna see our wedding stuff right now, nothing’s packed yet. Take comfort in knowing you are on point right now. It’s going to go ridiculously fast. It doesn’t even feel like September, I don’t even know where summer went.
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    And yet again we are in complete agreement! I can't believe the summer is already over and fall is approaching more quickly than I ever imagined possible. Our list doesn't feel daunting but there are still a number of line items to check off.

    She's now trying to make sure I get enough done to go on my camping trip. I am THIS close to saying yes, I do need 3 days in the woods!

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  • W-K
    Super October 2019
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    Yesss! So soon! I honestly thought time would be going by more slowly than it is at this point.

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  • Katherine
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    Make lists, delegate, take time to relax, get plenty of sleep, and enjoy!!!
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    Crazy right? I thought this time would drag but it is speeding by!!

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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    We're good on most of that. I think it's the nervous energy rearing it's ugly head. I'm the kind of person that overthinks everything.

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    Yay! Remember to just keep breathing and you’ll be fine !
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    The real countdown begins !!!!!
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    Thank you so much.

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  • Amina
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    Woosah!! Relax and drink lots of wine. I would suggest having a go to contact leading up to the day like a close family member that can handle any vendor communication and last min guest questions/concerns so you can just relax and enjoy these days. And don’t forget the wine!
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